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Etiquette of Paying the Bill

At restaurants and cafés, you might find Arabs arguing over the bill. But don’t assume it’s about splitting cost. It’s actually about who gets the honor of paying, a tradition that reflects the spirit of generosity and hospitality in Arab culture. You’re supposed to insist on paying, and you could even be perceived as rude if you don’t.

Social bonding and generosity

This tradition goes beyond the mere act of paying; it reinforces social bonds and mutual respect. By insisting on paying the bill, you show your generosity and commitment to maintaining strong relationships. You express gratitude and appreciation for people’s company and ensure that they leave with positive feelings.

Funny videos about this topic

This tradition has inspired numerous jokes:

Jordanian men argue over who gets to pay, but there’s a twist at the very end.

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Paying for dinner with white people vs Arabs

Canadians vs. Arabs when it’s time to pay

Conflict over who’s going to pay for the soda (This happened in real life!)

Next time you see a group of Arabs passionately discussing the bill at a restaurant, don’t worry! They’re not arguing over who owes what but rather who gets the honor of treating their friends. This lively tradition showcases the values of kindness and communal bonding. If you ever find yourself in this situation, insisting on paying the bill too is a polite move and part of the fun. Embracing these customs helps us appreciate different cultures and their unique ways of showing generosity and hospitality.

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